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What Pornography Taught You Wrong
Let me start off by saying that this is not a philosophical or psychological article. I do, at times, write from a more psychological perspective, but this is not one of those times. This is a simple, hands-on guide of what you, the heterosexual guy, should simply not attempt in the bedroom (or potentially, stop attempting).
By Marlena Guzowskiabout a year ago in Filthy
Save Room For Dessert.... Content Warning.
Save Room For Dessert Thanksgiving dinner and party by the lake. Well technically not Thanksgiving, yet. My friend group of 7 has known each other since college, and we celebrate “Friendsgiving” every year. Michelle, Daniel, Calvin, Rayven, Neal, Bethany, and me: Hazel. My parents have a nice sized cabin they happily let me use every year because my friends and I offer to pay for professional cleaning after we leave and before my relatives arrive the following week. It’s usually a 3-day weekend. We have dinner catered on Friday night, host a “big” party of about 30/40 of extended friends and significant others the night after, and do a Sunday brunch. Monday turns it into a 4-day weekend when we need an extra day to relax and/or sober up.
By LiciaEmber2 years ago in Filthy
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Real-World Strategies To Strengthen Intimacy In Long-Term Relationships
Due to the routine that accompanies long-term relationships, it is common to have the problem of overshadowing romance. With the growing responsibilities, couples might unknowingly lose emotional attachment to their focus and start focusing on logistics. Putting emphasis on constant emotional interaction is a priority to sustain intimacy in the long run. Such mundane actions as posing significant questions, saying thank you, or highlighting the best things of the day can create intimacy. Emotional bonding is enhanced by the partners being perceived and being appreciated in other ways other than utilitarianism. Setting up planned conversations, however, short ones, strengthens the connection and keeps the communication available. Through emotional awareness, couples avoid the occurrence of distance and enhance the underpinnings of intimacy that will lead to the achievement of long-term satisfaction in the relationship.
By Willian James33 minutes ago in Filthy
How Emotional Intelligence Can Help Singles Navigate Casual And Open Relationships
Emotional intelligence is the skill of identifying, comprehending, and controlling personal feelings and being able to know how other people feel. This skill is vital to the single individuals who seek casual and open relationships. In comparison to the traditional relationship structures, casual and open ones tend to have a range of emotional variables, changing expectations, and less clearly defined boundaries. In the absence of emotional intelligence, confusion and anger can emerge within a short period of time. Individuals that develop self-awareness and empathy tend to better understand the emotional messages, act rationally, and have healthy relationships within the complicated dating contexts.
By Willian James41 minutes ago in Filthy
Losing My Virginity. Content Warning.
When I was younger, I wanted my first sexual experience to be for love, not simply a buildup of teenaged hormones. Unfortunately, my stepdad was incredibly homophobic, going so far as to tell my mother when he caught me watching the musical film Chicago at age twelve that if I came home with a boyfriend, he was going to kick me out. When my mother passed it on it didn't even occur to me to be upset with her for not only telling me about it, but for not punching him in the face like he deserved. Growing up knowing that the way I was was wrong, I learned to deny it as much as humanly possible; I didn't feel that I could trust anyone with my deepest, darkest secret. In high school, there was a lot of speculation about my sexuality - I was the guy who hung out almost exclusively with girls and loved musical theater and Madonna - but I didn't feel that I could be open and honest about my sexuality even then, so instead, I fervently denied it. I kept all of my gay crushes hidden away, afraid to even act on them lest my stepdad find out and kick me to the curb.
By Gabriel Bradshaw about 8 hours ago in Filthy
Huddles and Harmonies (p2)
3 Oh-vation Chapter Rating: NC-17 (for some spicy dreams and self-pleasure) Sleep that night was impossible. My body was a bundle of live wires, my hormones like an electric current. I ached between my legs. I had never been so turned on. Reaching down into my panties, I discovered my inner thighs and folds slick with arousal.
By CT Idlehouseabout 11 hours ago in Filthy
Trending Relationship Questions About Balancing Career And Love
It is a frequent problem of the contemporary life as it is necessary to follow both the career goals and the love affair. Singles and couples could not easily manage to devote their time and energy to work and emotional relationship building. To achieve priorities, it is necessary to consider both individual and interpersonal objectives. The knowledge of what is important enables people to organize and take calculated choices regarding time management. Career and relationship development do not necessarily need to be mutually exclusive and through proper planning, respect will be given to each of the two. Providing certain priorities, people will feel less stressed, they will not be able to neglect their partners, and they will have time to be close to their significant other and at the same time achieve professional success.
By Willian Jamesabout 23 hours ago in Filthy
Psychology-Based Tips For Cultivating Emotional Closeness In Relationships
The initial step of emotional intimacy is the knowledge of emotional needs of oneself and the partner. The psychological studies indicate that when their fundamental needs such as security, appreciation, and acceptance are satisfied, people would feel closer. Couples ought to spend time contemplating on areas that make them feel appreciated and discuss the needs with each other. Emotional awareness eliminates assumptions and minimizes misunderstandings that usually put distance between. Couples develop a supportive environment by determining triggers, comfort preferences and emotional expectations. When emotional needs are known, partners can respond by choice and not by reaction and this enhances trust and develops a more meaningful and lasting emotional relationship with the partners.
By Robert Smithabout 24 hours ago in Filthy
How Lifestyle Choices Improve Communication In Open Relationships
Open relationships with others start with emotional self-care. Unattached people who are more focused on their mental and emotional health can better manifest their emotions and react mathematically. Journaling, meditation, and mindfulness are some of the practices that people can use to recognize their emotions before sharing them with partners. Knowledge of own emotional conditions helps to avoid acting on the spur of the moment and minimize misunderstanding. Self-regulation helps one to tackle sensitive discussions in a peaceful way as one accepts the responsibility of regulating him or herself. Emotional self-care also provides that the communication is constructive and not reactive, and both partners are able to express the views freely. It is based on this that confidence and understanding of the dynamics of open relationships are enhanced.
By Mark Hipster2 days ago in Filthy
Cultivating Intimacy In Long-Term Relationships Through Emotional Awareness
Emotional awareness is the skill to understand and be aware of the emotions of the self and those of the other partner. This is what is vital in long-term relationships to ensure intimacy and connection. Some of the difficulties that couples may undergo include stress, routine or silent expectations that may bring emotional distance between the parties. Through the development of self-awareness, one is able to recognize emotions such as frustration, joy or insecurity in a real time. Acknowledging emotions enables the partners to express needs clearly and react in an empathetic manner. The basis of intimacy is emotional awareness, and this leads to understanding each other and minimizing conflict and both of them feel seen, heard, and that they are valued at an emotional level as well.
By Mark Hipster2 days ago in Filthy
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